Friends, family and countrymen are loyal - they could and may die for each other. But they aren't necessarily having a sexual relationship although it may be intimate. Why does "cheating" (or having a serious relationship with someone while still having fun with others on the side) make someone LESS LOYAL just because they're not monogomous? I'd take loyalty over monogomy any day. And I can offer loyalty much easier than the other.
hb, interesting. it's hypocrisy. i know you realize this, but the bigger question seems to be: why does what you're doing to someone hurt when it's done to you? if you've reationalized your actions, why is it hard to accept those same actions when they're turned around?Interesting.
Natalie Blake is an open book and a bad speller.