Q: Is sex enjoyable for her if she doesn't orgasm?
A: Women, more often than men, report that they find sex to be pleasurable even if they do not orgasm. In addition to the fact that it feels pleasurable to be touched, many women enjoy the intimacy that sex provides, the kissing, touching, closeness, etc.
Will we enjoy sex without orgasm? Yes.
Will we be disappointed? Yes.
Will we expect you to finish what you started even though you're done? Yes.
Q: How can a guy give a woman multiple orgasms?
A: Not all women report ever having had multiple orgasms. In some studies, it seems that less than half of women have reported this. That doesn't mean that they aren't capable of multiple orgasms, but it does mean that we don't know how many are.
For women who want multiple orgasms—and that is key, guys—try to maintain stimulation through the first orgasm so that she can keep going. For women who are neutral about multiples or don't care, don't pressure her (and yes, trying too hard counts as pressure) because pressure and orgasm rarely mix.
Are you fucking kidding me, "Debby?" If any woman could have multiple orgasms, why would she NOT want to? If she can - she will. I think THAT'S the key guys.
Q: How can a guy tell if he really is her "best ever"?
A: If she tells you that.
(Not directed at Debby this time but to the douche bag who asked the question.)
How much time are you going to waste worrying that, you retard? Get over yourself.