I'll be honest, I had no idea what to expect. I went to a Munch beforehand. We ate dinner, chatted a little about the group and the to expect at the party.
If you know me, even if only via this blog, you know I can't help but ask a lot of questions. So, after I was assured that drugs were never allowed at the parties and that I was not expected or obligated to play at any party, ever, I went along to see whats up.
The party included:
A group of very normal, nice people who were very generous with thier time sharing their knowledge, experiences, tips and tricks and answering the many questions of the newbies (I wasn't the only one.)
Snacks and non-alcoholic beverages.
A cross and a spanking bench.
A rack of toys and paraphanalia.
And last, but certainly not least, a flogging demonstration.
It was interesting. It was informative. It was totaly captivating.
Over the hours I was there, I thought about what draws people to BDSM, specificly identifying as a d/s/s and flogging and impact play.
I'll write about that in my next post since I stayed up so late I'm fucking exhausted and need to go back to bed. (yeah, i'm officially an old lady now.)