It's not anything bizarre (I don't think) but something I have never been good at, and I'm ready to attempt it once more.
I've never liked to be blindfolded or tied up durring sex. I HATE not at least being in control of myself, especially in vulnerable or intimate situations such as sex. But I think I'm ready to try again... but theres a catch.
It won't be that I'm blindfolded and he isn't - no way.
This time around I'm thinking we both will be. Maybe just an unscented candle for a tiny bit of light, but no music - only our voices. No scents - just each other and the essence of sex - you know the one.
I'm thinking it would be best of we had to communicate without words. Moans, giggles, sighs, kisses, licks, light touches, more forceful placing of hands on bodies, etc... to see where it leads - to new places?
But I think the catch is that it has to be with the right person at the right time. In my opinion, this isn't something that would be as fun or as memorable with an aquaintance or someone with whom you don't share a level of trust - becuase this is intimacy.