I don't think my way is right or better - but I do think my way is less stressful.
I tweet, post pics, update my status and even blog when I want about what I want. For myself.
Sometimes I get writers block and ask for ideas on what to write about here, but if I can't think of anything and I'm not feeling the suggestions I get I just don't write. I don't get paid for this and although I often think of topics I want to expand upon here on the blog, I rarely have the time to sit down and do it. I enjoy writing here, but life comes first.
As for twitter and Instagram, I do those for myself, too.
I can't imagine the stress of trying to be funny, clever or talented "enough" to hang with those who are actually funny, clever and talented. My goal is not to amass a huge following or get RT'ed or Faved or Liked, FF'ed or even star-banged (it's not as fun as it sounds, sadly.)
I figure if you're looking for me you'll find me. And if you like what you see you'll stay. If you really like what you see you'll interact. And if not, that's fine, too.